Hey, guys. I’m having a busy week at my real job. I don’t have time for a whole letter, but I did want to tell the person who found me by Bingoogling “what do you do when your boyfriend and his friends feel that you are too bossy” that boyfriends are optional. If they think you’re bossy because you’re bossy, stop bossing them. Or get a blog. If they think you’re bossy and you’re not, ditch ‘em. HTH, Bets.